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Can you like everyone? Must prospects like you? Is it important for decision
makers and those with influence to like a sales person? Surely they will favour the merit
of a product or service.
Explosion of choice and competition confuse the
picture. Customers bleed for the want of reliable, trusted advice. Who can they trust? It
is hard to believe in the integrity of those you don't like.
So what makes you like someone? Here is a list - the result of more than a few
years study and research.
First impressions.
Their interest in you.
Common thinking style.
How much they like you.
What they might do for you.
Common adversity.
Common interests.
Knowing it is only the half of it. Faking it seldom works. Non verbal cues in
body language, voice and words give one away, sooner or later. You can always spot a bad
actor. How do good actors convince us? They live the role. They create the person, inside
themselves. They feel it, as if it were real. There is only one sure way to emulate
this. Make it real. Take a genuine interest in those you would like to listen. Identify
and adapt for their thinking style. Find reasons to like them. Think of what you can do
for them. Learn about their interests. Put yourself, metaphorically, on their side of the
desk.
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