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Book Review
August 2003 |
Having thoroughly enjoyed another Allan Pease
book, ‘Why Men don’t Listen and Women can’t Read Maps’, I am delighted to
report ‘Body Language’ is at least equally valuable. Numerous drawings
illustrate the clearly written explanations. Albert Mehrabian’s study in
1967 revealed how people retain information from a presentation. His results
give a clue to the importance of non-verbal language. Of what people
remember, only seven percent are the words, thirty-eight percent relates to
how things were said, and the remaining fifty five percent is from what was
seen. Allan quotes other research that suggests eighty-seven percent of
communication reaches the brain via the eyes, nine percent via the ears, and
four percent via other senses.
Allan thoroughly explores the visual aspects of non-verbal communication in
this book. If you need an incentive to get a copy, buy it for the chapter
titled ‘Courtship Gestures and Signals’. It details lists of the signals
made by Men and Women to indicate interest. If you are amongst the many Men
who have trouble interpreting female body language, this book may change
your life. Most women, as Allan explains in the other book, are much more
sensitive to non-verbal clues and read male body language with ease.
Good sales people intuitively read and project appropriate body language to
enhance their communication. Since we have only used sophisticated modern
language for about fifty thousand years, the fact that much of what we think
is telegraphed visually, is hardly surprising. For several million years,
vocal noises and body language accounted for all human dialogue. Every one
of us must have the innate skill to recognise the meaning of subtle
movements and gestures. To reconnect with yours, read this book.
ISBN 0-85969-782-7
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Book Review
by Clive Miller |